Do i have a right to be upset?

I can tell you (as a guy) we hate taking on the phone becuase we feel asthough we're too akward. I mean we're guys, we're terrible with our words and feel like we might say something stupid or something we don't mean to say. Bare with him, my girlfreind still busts my butt for not calling her enough. Simply just talk to him about it and maybe ask him to call alittle more.